{"id":949,"date":"2020-05-26T12:32:17","date_gmt":"2020-05-26T12:32:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sit-ks.org\/?p=949"},"modified":"2020-05-26T12:32:17","modified_gmt":"2020-05-26T12:32:17","slug":"burrat-e-rinj-e-pranojne-barazine-gjinore-por-ende-nuk-fshijne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sit-ks.org\/sq\/burrat-e-rinj-e-pranojne-barazine-gjinore-por-ende-nuk-fshijne\/","title":{"rendered":"Burrat e rinj e pranojn\u00eb barazin\u00eb gjinore por ende nuk fshijn\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Studimet e reja tregojn\u00eb se q\u00ebndrimet tradicionale vazhdojn\u00eb lidhur me faktin se kush \u00e7ka b\u00ebn n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, dhe kjo po i pengon grat\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00eb rinjt\u00eb jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb mendjehapur rreth roleve gjinore \u2013 kjo shfaqet n\u00eb q\u00ebndrimet e tyre p\u00ebr p\u00ebremrat, politik\u00ebn dhe sportin. Por n\u00eb nj\u00eb fush\u00eb, ndryshimi ka qen\u00eb minimal. Ata po mbahen p\u00ebr pik\u00ebpamjet tradicionale lidhur me faktin se kush \u00e7ka b\u00ebn n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u00eb nj\u00eb hulumtin t\u00eb ri nga Gallup del se n\u00eb \u00e7iftet e seksit t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt, ata t\u00eb moshave 18 deri n\u00eb 34 vje\u00e7 nuk ishin shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb prirur sesa \u00e7iftet e vjetra t\u2019i ndajn\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e pun\u00ebve t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb barabart\u00eb. Dhe nga nj\u00eb hulumtim sociologjik i publikuar n\u00eb janar t\u00eb k\u00ebtij viti doli se kur maturant\u00ebt u pyet\u00ebn p\u00ebr rregullimin ideal t\u00eb familjes me f\u00ebmij\u00eb, gati nj\u00eb \u00e7erek than\u00eb se ishte q\u00eb burri t\u00eb punonte me orar t\u00eb plot\u00eb dhe gruaja t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb num\u00ebr m\u00eb i madh sesa ata q\u00eb donin ndonj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr rregullim t\u00eb familjes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fakti q\u00eb sht\u00ebpia nuk duket aq ndryshe prej gjysm\u00eb shekulli m\u00eb par\u00eb i befason hulumtuesit\/et, p\u00ebr shkak se n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e m\u00ebnyrave t\u00eb tjera, q\u00ebndrimet ndaj roleve gjinore kan\u00eb ndryshuar shum\u00eb. Tani ka pothuaj se p\u00ebrkrahje universale p\u00ebr gra q\u00eb t\u00eb ndjekin karrier\u00eb apo t\u00eb ky\u00e7en n\u00eb politik\u00eb. Grat\u00eb shkollohen m\u00eb shum\u00eb se burrat. T\u00eb rinjt\u00eb\/rejat i pranojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb personat q\u00eb nuk identifikohen as si burr\u00eb, as si grua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dallimi i ndikon asektet tjera t\u00eb barazis\u00eb s\u00eb grave: Koha shtes\u00eb q\u00eb grat\u00eb e kalojn\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht n\u00eb lidhje me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, \u00ebsht\u00eb shkak kryesor p\u00ebr hendekun gjinor n\u00eb pag\u00eb dhe ngritjen n\u00eb pozit\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cN\u00ebse t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb\/rejat nuk munden as ta paramendojn\u00eb nj\u00eb model se si koha e burrave n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi do t\u00eb dukej, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshmi se besimet toan rreth gjinis\u00eb jan\u00eb v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb forta dhe t\u00eb ngulitura,\u201d tha Joanna Pepin, sociologe n\u00eb Universitetin e Texas-it n\u00eb Austin dhe nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr autoret e studimit t\u00eb publikuar s\u00eb fundmi, me Brittany Dernberger, kandidate e doktoratur\u00ebs n\u00eb sociologji, n\u00eb Universitetin Maryland. \u201cEdhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb po e pengon ndryshimin social\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hulumtuesit\/et kan\u00eb ide t\u00eb ndryshme se pse ndarja e pun\u00ebve n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi ka ndryshuar aq ngadal\u00eb, p\u00ebrkund\u00ebr fitimeve t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb grave. Nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr sqarimet m\u00eb t\u00eb thjeshta: Burrat mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur ta ken\u00eb nj\u00eb partnere q\u00eb sjell nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr pages\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, por jo t\u00eb lumtur t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb pun\u00eb t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u00ebnat q\u00eb punojn\u00eb kalojn\u00eb aq koh\u00eb duke b\u00ebr\u00eb aktivitete me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt sa kalonin edhe grat\u00eb n\u00eb vitet e 70-a q\u00eb nuk ishin t\u00eb pun\u00ebsuara. N\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb, shum\u00eb pun\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb orar m\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb dhe jofleksibil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Edhe normat rreth asaj se \u00e7ka pritet t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb burrat kan\u00eb ndikim, thon\u00eb hulumtuesit\/et \u2013 duke filluar q\u00eb n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri, kur djemt\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb pak pun\u00eb t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb sesa vajzat. Maskuliniteti \u00ebsht\u00eb i lidhur ngusht\u00eb me t\u00eb fituarit e t\u00eb ardhurave dhe shmangien e gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb konsiderohen fem\u00ebrore. Studimet kan\u00eb treguar se burrat mund t\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnuar n\u00ebse grat\u00eb e tyre fitojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se ata, dhe p\u00ebr ta kompensuar k\u00ebt\u00eb, burrat q\u00eb ndihen k\u00ebshtu mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb edhe m\u00eb pak pun\u00eb t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cT\u00eb jesh burr\u00eb i mir\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh i pun\u00ebsuar\u201d, tha Sarah Th\u00e9baud, sociologe n\u00eb Universitetin e Kalifornis\u00eb, Santa Barbara. \u201cKjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb nuk duan t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihen \u2013 ata duan. Por \u00e7\u00ebshtja \u00ebsht\u00eb se jemi duke shtyr\u00eb kund\u00ebr k\u00ebtyre besimeve preskriptive rreth gjinis\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Autor\u00ebt\/et e studimit t\u00eb ri t\u00eb sociologjis\u00eb sugjeruan nj\u00eb sqarim tjet\u00ebr: pasiguria ekonomike. Shum\u00eb t\u00eb rinj\/reja p\u00ebrballen me pun\u00ebsim t\u00eb paq\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm, borxhe studentore dhe rritje t\u00eb \u00e7mimeve t\u00eb sht\u00ebpive dhe kujdesit ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Mbase familjet e reja jan\u00eb t\u00eb hapura ndaj barazis\u00eb s\u00eb grave jasht\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak se ju duhet nj\u00eb burim i dyt\u00eb i t\u00eb ardhurave, thane hulumtuesit\/et, por q\u00ebndrimet e tyre rreth roleve gjinore nuk jan\u00eb zhvilluar edhe aq.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Studimi i tyre, i cili u publikua n\u00eb revist\u00ebn Sociological Science (Shkenca Sociologjike), u bazua n\u00eb nj\u00eb anket\u00eb komb\u00ebtare t\u00eb quajtur Monitoring the Future (Moniorimi i s\u00eb Ardhmes), i mbajtur \u00e7do vit me maturant\u00eb\/e. Fokusi i tyre ishte t\u2019u k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb respondent\u00ebve\/eve ta paramendojn\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn jan\u00eb t\u00eb martuar (supozohet me dik\u00ebnd t\u00eb seksit t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt) me f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs parashkollore, dhe t\u2019i vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb disa aranzhime t\u00eb pun\u00ebs dhe kujdesit ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u00ebrgjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb viteve t\u00eb studimit, pjesa m\u00eb e madhe e respondent\u00ebve\/eve than\u00eb se aranzhimi m\u00eb i d\u00ebshiruesh\u00ebm ishte q\u00eb burrat t\u00eb punojn\u00eb me orar t\u00eb plot\u00eb dhe grat\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nj\u00eb fush\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn \u00e7iftet e reja kishin m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjasa sesa \u00e7iftet e vjetra p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb barabart\u00eb ishte n\u00eb kujdesin ditor ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, edhe pse grat\u00eb ishin ende m\u00eb t\u00eb prirura t\u00eb b\u00ebnin m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dhe kjo nuk bazohet gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb gjini: Hulumtimet te \u00e7iftet e t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtit seks tregojn\u00eb se nj\u00ebri person b\u00ebn m\u00eb shum\u00eb pun\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe m\u00eb pak pun\u00eb jasht\u00eb n\u00ebse kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Por n\u00eb \u00e7iftet e seksit t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt, shum\u00eb shpesh guraja e kryen grumbullin e obligimeve t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, sidomos n\u00eb lidhje me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, edhe n\u00ebse ka karrier\u00eb. N\u00ebse marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet b\u00ebhen m\u00eb t\u00eb barabarta brenda sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, kjo do t\u00eb kishte rezultate tejet t\u00eb larta edhe jasht\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>Nga: Claire Cain Miller<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><em>Ky artikull \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrkthyer nga SIT n\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb nism\u00ebs \u201cAksione n\u00eb komunitet p\u00ebr t\u00eb promovuar lejen prind\u00ebrore\u201d n\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb projektit \u201cDialog social p\u00ebr drejt\u00ebsi shoq\u00ebrore\u201d q\u00eb implementohet nga Demokraci p\u00ebr zhvillim [<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/d4d.ks\/\"><em>Democracy for Development (D4D)<\/em><\/a><em>], financohet nga Qendra Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/olofpalmeinternationalcenter\/\"><em> Olof Palme International Center<\/em><\/a><em> dhe mb\u00ebshtetet nga Qeveria Suedeze.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Studimet e reja tregojn\u00eb se q\u00ebndrimet tradicionale vazhdojn\u00eb lidhur me faktin se kush \u00e7ka b\u00ebn n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, dhe kjo po i pengon grat\u00eb. T\u00eb rinjt\u00eb jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb mendjehapur rreth roleve gjinore \u2013 kjo shfaqet n\u00eb q\u00ebndrimet e tyre p\u00ebr p\u00ebremrat, politik\u00ebn dhe sportin. Por n\u00eb nj\u00eb fush\u00eb, ndryshimi ka qen\u00eb minimal. 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