N\u00eb at\u00eb situt\u00eb ishte turp\u00ebruar nga vetja por\ngjith\u00e7ka kishte ndryshuar kur i kishte takuar njer\u00ebz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb ishin\np\u00ebrkrah\u00ebs, dhe kjo e kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb ndihet\nshum\u00eb e lumtur, dhe kishte dalur publikisht me persona t\u00eb caktuar si\nlezbike. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cPor,\np\u00ebrkrahja me nj\u00eb an\u00eb nuk largoi mosp\u00ebrkrahjen n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr. Frika ime m\u00eb e madhe\n\u00ebsht\u00eb dhe akoma q\u00ebndron se mos shoq\u00ebria tjet\u00ebr e imja e kupton p\u00ebr\nseksualitetin tim dhe ju tregon prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb mi. Dhe at\u00ebher<\/em>\u00eb ka shansa q\u00eb ata do m\u00eb\nd\u00ebbojn\u00eb mua, dhe ja pse jeta ime \u00ebsht\u00eb \u2018e dyfisht\u00eb\u2019\u201d, <\/em>thot\u00eb K.L. duke\nshtuar se k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb dyfisht\u00eb e kalojn\u00eb shum\u00eb persona t\u00eb tjer\u00eb t\u00eb komunitetit\nLGBTQ+, \u201cgj\u00eb q\u00eb i\u2019u pengon atyre t\u00eb jen\u00eb\nvet\u00ebvetja.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00eb nj\u00eb anket\u00eb jopretendencioze t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nga KosovaLive p\u00ebr\npersonat e komunitetit LGBT, n\u00eb pyetjen e par\u00eb 85.7% persona jan\u00eb shprehur\np\u00ebrkrah\u00ebs t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre komuniteteve nd\u00ebrsa 14.3% deklaruan se nuk jan\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb indikative se 88.6% t\u00eb t\u00eb anketuarve\ndeklaruar se do t\u00eb ishin p\u00ebrkrah\u00ebs n\u00ebse nj\u00eb i af\u00ebrm i tyre do t\u00eb ishte\npjes\u00eb e k\u00ebtij komuniteti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n F. E, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i mosh\u00ebs 35 vje\u00e7are tregon historin\u00eb e tij se\nsi, qysh si f\u00ebmij\u00eb, kishte v\u00ebrejtur se i kishin p\u00eblqyer djemt\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201c\u2026Por me\nrritje e kam par\u00eb vet\u00ebn dhe njer\u00ebzit rreth meje se si p\u00ebrbuzin personat e\nkomunitetit LGBT dhe e kam marr\u00eb p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr t\u00eb martohem dhe t\u00eb jem \u2018normal\u2019\u2026 Por\nnuk \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb martesa ka krijuar nj\u00eb ndalim ndaj seksualitetit tim, dhe k\u00ebshtu\nkam dalluar q\u00eb kurr\u00eb nuk mund t\u2019a ndryshoj<\/em>\u00eb vet\u00ebveten dhe se si\natrakcioni im do jet\u00eb pjes\u00eb e imja.\u201d<\/em><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb shkaku i \u201cq\u00ebndrimit n\u00eb dollap nga\nfrika\u201d, arsyeja pse ata nuk tregojn\u00eb p\u00ebr seksualitetin e tyre jan\u00eb edhe\nprind\u00ebrit, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb rritur n\u00eb periudha m\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme dhe ende nuk e kan\u00eb\nkuptuar konceptin e t\u00eb pasurit nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i cili i p\u00ebrket komunitetit LGBTQI+.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nj\u00eb 22 vje\u00e7are, e cila nuk ka dashur ta tregoj\u00eb as inicialet por as vendin se nga \u00ebsht\u00eb thot\u00eb se qysh si e vog\u00ebl e kishte v\u00ebrejtur se\nishte e interesuar p\u00ebr vajza; \u201csimpatia\u201d e saj kishte qen\u00eb Adelina Ismajli. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cP\u00ebrvoja e\npar\u00eb me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb ka qen\u00eb gjat\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs s\u00eb mesme, aty e kam ndjer\u00eb veten t\u00eb\nplot\u00ebsuar. Kur ju kam treguar shoq\u00ebris\u00eb p\u00ebr seksualitetin tim ata e kan\u00eb marr\u00eb\nsi nj\u00eb gj\u00eb normale. Sa p\u00ebr familje k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb<\/em> e dijn\u00eb vet\u00ebm motra dhe v\u00ebllau. Nuk kam\nguxim t\u2019iu tregoj<\/em>\u00eb prind\u00ebrve dhe vet\u00ebm mendimi q\u00eb mundem t\u2019i humbas ata m\u00eb\nfrik\u00ebson.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ajo gjithsesi\n<\/em>nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e vetmja q\u00eb ka pasur p\u00ebrvoja t\u00eb k\u00ebtilla me rrethin e saj si pjes\u00eb e\nkomunitetit LGBTQI+.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nj\u00eb statistik\u00eb e vitit 2017 kishte nxjerr\u00eb Kosov\u00ebn si vendin m\u00eb\nhomofob n\u00eb rajon, ndon\u00ebse duhet p\u00ebrmendur q\u00eb po at\u00eb vit u mbajt parada e par\u00eb e\nkrenaris\u00eb n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb. Parada \u201cN\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb dashnis\u00eb\u201d, sic u raportua\nat\u00ebbot\u00eb, u p\u00ebrcoll me muzik\u00eb, fjalime\ndhe me val\u00ebvitjen e flamurave t\u00eb ylbert\u00eb n\u00eb sheshin \u201cN\u00ebn\u00eb Tereza\u201d\np\u00ebrkund\u00ebr ngacmimeve, sulmeve dhe\nk\u00ebrc\u00ebnimeve q\u00eb i mor\u00ebn aktivist\u00ebt e komunitetit LGBTQI+ online.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cKam menduar se jam i\nvet\u00ebm sepse kurr\u00eb nuk kam pasur dik\u00ebnd t\u00eb m\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsoj. Nuk kam dit\u00eb se ka\nnjer\u00ebz si un\u00eb q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndrojur t\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se kush jan\u00eb, njer\u00ebz si un\u00eb t\u00eb\nlumtur dhe q\u00eb g\u00ebzojn\u00eb guxim t\u00eb dalin krah bot\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se ekzistojn\u00eb.\nParada e par\u00eb m\u00eb dha at\u00eb qet\u00ebsim. Kur e\npash\u00eb Prishtin\u00ebn time t\u00eb mbuluar me dashuri dhe ngjyra e pash\u00eb q\u00eb nuk jam i\nvet\u00ebm\u201d, <\/em>thot\u00eb D.G. 19 vje\u00e7 p\u00ebr KosovaLive dhe SIT.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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